When you feel low or drained
An unproductive day does not have to mean you are lazy. Recording changes in your mood, sleep, meals, and daily life can help you explain what is difficult.
Three things to reflect on
- Choose one moment that felt particularly difficult today. Instead of 'all day,' describe when and where it happened and what you were trying to do.
- Record feelings and actions separately. Distinguishing 'I felt drained' from 'I skipped a meal and stayed in bed' can help you find something to try differently.
- Choose a next action that is manageable. If going outside is too much, try reaching the front door; if eating is difficult, get one ready-to-eat item. If you cannot do it, explore what got in the way.
You could say this to Maeumi
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“Lately I just lie down after work and cannot do anything. Before blaming my willpower, I want to look at the moments in my day that feel especially hard.”
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